Societies are now living in intertwined conflicts over political and personal interests, and whoever wins and loses in them loses, and between the two, people cry out who wish for someone who is kind to them, relieves their anguish, relieves their pain, feeds the hungry, eliminates debt from their debtors, and guides pleasure to their grief.
On the authority of Abu Huraira, may God be pleased with him, the Messenger of God, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, said: “Whoever loves deeds to God brings happiness to the heart of the believer, relieves him of sorrow, or pays off a debt on his behalf, or feeds him from hunger.” Returning the favor is the Feast of Appreciation, which is Mother’s Day, and I personally consider it one of the spiritual flavors, so we have only to be exposed to these notes hoping that they might strike us, so an invitation from the mother is sufficient to open the gates of the Seven Heavens and be satisfied with the children.
One of the arts of etiquette is good communication with others, and there is no better than good manners as a messenger among all people. A smile on your brother’s face is charity, and the well-known saying is charity and bringing happiness to others, even if it is a simple gift. What if the mother is, and although Mother’s Day is recognition of the grace of our mothers, it is also An occasion to remember and thank the other women in our lives who are of great honor or credit.
Therefore, I advise, as we deal with this occasion, that we take into account some of the principles in giving gifts that I am not my beloved, because the gift is a gentle message that carries many meanings of affection and intimacy and helps to deepen social ties in the family. When choosing a Mother’s Day gift, you must bear in mind that your presence is at the limit. Itself in front of it is the major gift and also your presentation of any gift that will not fulfill its right to you. All you have to do when you decide to buy a gift for it is that it is within your budget and it is not important that the gift is expensive in order to be attractive and influential, it can be a simple gift and give an image of the extent Our appreciation to whom we will give it to him. Also, good packaging for gifts using colorful ribbons and beautiful boxes in innovative shapes adds a measure of fun and excitement when receiving and opening it. The gift may sometimes lose its meaning if it is not presented in the correct and desired manner, and the most important condition that should be met in the gift is the element of surprise, because the most beautiful thing for a person is to surprise him dear He shall receive a material or moral reward.
A different family formation may exist in the life of many, such as if there are children of the husband who are in one place with their stepmother, then this relationship must be taken into consideration. The husband should not let this beautiful occasion pass without taking advantage of it in favor of strengthening family ties. He is an excellent example for children by putting aside any bad feelings. The gift in married life also has a language that you speak, and we use it to convey meanings
Assigned to the other party. It means renewal in the lives of spouses and thanksgiving, and it is also an expression of longing, or an apology, and if you want to spend Mother’s Day with your mother and your mother-in-law, or you want to celebrate both, you should try to find a compromise. As if you could either spend half a day with your mom and the other half with her.
It is also wise to know the characteristics of the personality to which the gift will be presented, including:
As if it were a romantic character, it is preferable for the gift to have a special aesthetic that is dominated by tenderness and romance, even if the gift is simple and not expensive, this does not matter to the owner of the romantic personality.
Or it is a practical figure, so it is preferable that the gift is of practical value and benefit that can be used at work and at home permanently.
Or a sentimental figure, it is preferable to have a touch of love, tenderness and overflowing emotions, such as a photo album or a frame with pictures of loved ones close to him, and the gift could be an emotional novel or a video tape of an emotional movie.
Or a conservative figure, it is preferable that the gift is of belonging to the homeland, the land and the family with an authentic historical touch and a part of the country’s national heritage, such as a masterpiece, use tools, a folk costume of beautiful embroidered folk costumes or a piece of jewelery from the heritage.
There is also a personality with a special temperament, so it is preferable that the gift be one of the home’s usable pieces that have a distinctive and unique character, or one of the tea or coffee sets that are unique designed for him and his guests or an educated person, so the best gift is a book or a group of club books that are difficult to obtain or an annual subscription to a magazine Distinguished literary cultural, according to his literary or scientific tendencies.
The more special the gift is, the greater the impact it has, and perhaps a woman’s joy in roses more than expensive gifts is due to the fact that she is emotional and vibrates her feelings for the shape of roses, while a man prefers material gifts that are more useful to him, such as a watch or a bag.
Last but not least, we do not forget on this day the mothers who lost their children, nor the sons who lost their mothers, so we strive to bring happiness to them, even if it is a light visit … and do not wait until Mother’s Day to tell your mother that you love her, because love is continuous between the mother and her children, and therefore this blessing and the treasure that God has provided us with must be preserved. With it in our lives and to drink from the paradise below its feet.
